Crowbarrens, chest tubes, and death on the ICU

People die on the ICU.

This is just a fact of life: we can’t save everybody. Bodies fall apart if enough bad things happen to them. Sometimes we can keep part of the body alive, but not the rest; sometimes we can support consciousness even when the body is doomed, although eventually even consciousness will fade. More often, we can keep the body running even while the brain is completely dead.

You’ll notice that, with other organ systems, we use different terms than with the brain. If your kidneys have some working tissue, but aren’t strong enough to get your blood really clean, you have renal failure. If your kidneys are so fucked up they shrivel into black raisins and you never pee again and you depend on a dialysis machine to clear out all your nitrogen waste products forever, we call it end stage renal failure, not renal death.

If your liver is a huge lumpy pile of scar tissue and blood can’t flow through it at all, you aren’t experiencing liver death (although you will soon die unless you get a new liver), you’re in end stage liver failure. If your lungs are full of gross shit and require mechanical assistance to get oxygen and carbon dioxide in and out of your blood, you are in respiratory failure; if your lungs are filled with scar tissue and nodules and all the cilia are burned out and every breath uses up more oxygen than it gains, you are in end stage respiratory failure. All of these things lead directly to death, although we’ve learned to cheat them a little better over time, but they are not death.

We also talk about heart failure, in which the heart can’t move blood well enough to maintain equilibrium without medical help. We even talk about end stage heart failure sometimes, although this mostly means this person is about to be dead. The true end stage of heart failure is cardiac death.

We call it death, because for a very long time, the lack of a pulse was death. There was no way to get it back. Once you crossed that line, you were gone.

But we’ve learned to cheat even that death, sometimes, if we’re lucky. We can, if we’re willing to break ribs and insert tubes and flood the body with toxins, restart the heart. We can even support a fatally wrecked heart for a while with ventricular assist devices. What was once death is now closer to failure.

So if we’ve blurred the line between life and death, what’s left? Is there anything that can be so damaged that we can’t compensate for it? Is there anything that truly goes beyond failure into death?

Wishbone, Leah, and the Return of Crowbarrens

Every shift, we introduce ourselves to our pts, explain how long we’ll be there today, and talk about our goals for the day. Some people have very simple goals: don’t die is popular, as are things like control pain and get out of bed. Some people will have procedures during the day, endoscopies or central line placements or dialysis.

Occasionally, the most important goals aren’t things we can cheerfully schedule with our pts: come to peace with impending death, or manage not to shit directly on anyone’s scrubs. In those cases, we find simpler goals: order breakfast and lunch early so they don’t have to wait, take a walk and get some sunlight, that kind of thing.

Then we do our assessments, because nothing helps your day get moving like peering at some guy’s butt and hoping that pink spot on his tailbone isn’t turning into a pressure ulcer.

A young stroke pt, a bit of fetal physiology, and some pettiness on my part

I genuinely wasn’t prepared for the popularity of this blog, or for some of the sequelae that followed it. I thought a few people might read it, get a chuckle, and glide on by. So I wrote like the blog would be gone in a month, a forgotten vanity, an echo chamber for my rambling thoughts.

Instead, you liked it. Which is alien and bizarre to me, like discovering that other people really do like the smell of your farts. Are you guys… okay?

Anyway, a lot of things happened while I was on hiatus.

I launched my kid sister at the end of the summer. It was not easy and I spent virtually all my downtime helping her fill out paperwork, set up and attend interviews, and move into her own tiny room in a house where girls rent rooms to sleep in between classes. She has a job now, and passed her GED. I am so proud.

Also, I am so glad that I can flop on my sofa in my underwear when I get home from a shift.

Aside from all that, I also went to Yellowstone for five days because I was losing my mind and my first response to stress is to go camping, and I went to a cheese festival and got constipated and drunk, and I had a shitty run-in with a pt family who heard only what they wanted to hear and reported to my manager that I had lied to them. Fortunately, my manager knows that I am a thousand percent more likely to overshare than I am to conceal, and has been my facebook friend long enough to know that withholding information about medications is not something I am physically capable of doing.

Mrs Leakey, Jelena, and Wen Li

So, uh, I’ve been on hiatus.

I’ve been working on a few chapters for a book proposal, and trying to get things pretty enough to be useful for publication, but I really REALLY prefer blogging to book writing (at least in this format) and I’d like to get back to this. So I plan to keep working on the blog, not necessarily shift-by-shift but following specific batches of pts, and work on the book between posts.

The upside to this is: I have a lot to tell you guys about. I expect to update once a week from here on out, and I actually have a backlog of posts ready to go, so there shouldn’t be any major hiccups for a while.

You have been wonderful and supportive, all of you, and I promise that if any of you is ever unfortunate enough to end up under my care, I will wipe your asses with the warm wet wipes.

(I also told a trio of trusted coworkers about my blog, so they could peek over it and make sure it’s both factual and HIPPA-compliant. All three of them immediately identified Crowbarrens. Life is good.)

Anyway. Let me tell you about Mrs. Leakey.

Week 8 Shift 3

Day two with Maycee. Somehow she survived her first shift and is back for more, and even looked a little energetic during shift change, which was downright irritating for me because I hadn’t had any coffee yet and felt like a lake of lukewarm shit. Fortunately our unit has free (terrible) coffee in a truck-stop-style machine in the supply rooms, so I was able to get my smack-and-wince dose of caffeine before my ability to feign personhood ran out.

I wasn’t always such a complete caffeine junkie. On nights I rarely ever drank coffee because it fucked up my sleep schedule so badly. Nowadays I can’t get through the morning without my usual half-cup mixed with a stolen mini carton of milk, and I drink the second half-cup cold and kind of stale-milk-tasting later in the afternoon. It’s not much caffeine, but I can’t do without it.

This disturbs me.

Maycee was drinking some sort of sentient green morass out of a Nalgene bottle. It smelled like algae and pineapple. It’s probably some healthy superfood thing I should be drinking instead of a paper cup of two percent and bean tar.

We took report from that one nurse again, the one with the propofol tubing fetish. He was still bitching about the damn tubing. I mean, I have been taken to task by some nurses for stupid things, but by this point I was a little embarrassed for him, especially since the pt we were taking back had been down to almost no levophed at all when we passed him off and now he was cranked up to a stupendous dose, his urine output had been trending downward for three hours with no MD notification, and he looked sweaty and shitty and filthy because apparently that bed bath he’d tried to trick Maycee into was the only bath he got all night.

Night shift nurses do the official bed baths, especially on vented pts. Whatever. I used to be a night nurse and I still have a Thing about my pts being clean. We opened up our shift with a stiff, polite nod to the departing nurse and then a proper bed bath for the pt.

We only had the one this time. Thank goodness—I planned to have Maycee assume all of his care today, and that would be completely impossible if we were running back and forth between pts all day. The neighbor, the humongous guy with diarrhea who was (also) wrongfully intubated, is still doing his thing and I still got to run in every twelve seconds and fix his IV so he could keep getting his sedatives, but we were able to focus mostly on the liver failure/sepsis pt and his increasing needs.

He was not getting at all better, but then again he wasn’t doing anything flashy either. He had high gastric volumes (amount of stomach juice that wasn't moving from stomach to intestine) so we couldn’t start tube feeds; he had lots of fluid in his abdomen so we ended up doing another paracentesis for another 6 liters. Since he weighed in at about 15 liters up this morning, in excess of his base weight, this was less impressive than I could have hoped… but there’s something deeply satisfying about watching all that gooey liquid pour into the suction canister, knowing that we’re cheating the body’s self-destructive excesses and recovering the balance.

A friend of mine observed this recently: a lot of what we do in the ICU is simply keeping your body from killing itself. Many of our natural processes are totally normal and productive at low levels: swelling is an important part of washing out infected or traumatized areas of the body, clotting keeps us from bleeding out, fevers fight infection… but at a critical level of acuity, those same processes become a potential death sentence. Inflammation crushes our bodies, deforms our tissues, drains the liquid from our blood; clots occlude our arteries and contribute to adhesions and use up our platelets where they aren’t needed; fevers cook our brains and organs like gently poached eggs.

Past that threshold, the body can’t heal itself effectively. It’s a last-ditch effort, a forlorn hope: maybe another half a degree will stop the bacteria, and we can rebuild the damage later, maybe, or live without the ruined parts. Maybe a little more swelling will give us the edge against the infection, and maybe we can catch up on blood volume later. Maybe this clot will be the one that heals the damage.

If this one doesn’t work, we die anyway.

But then here comes modern medicine with its antibiotics and other weapons of microbial mass destruction, ready to save the day, if only we can get the body to stand aside and let us do the work. Septicemia? Sure, we have an antibiotic for that—one bug, one drug. Maybe two or three, if we can’t figure out which thing we’re fighting.

But while the vancomycin and piperacillin and ceftriaxone are working perfectly well and the invaders are in fast retreat, the body is still fighting as if it’s alone on the field. So we give drug after drug to support the body through its berkserk phase: liters of fluid to replace losses, pressors to keep the fluid where it belongs, blood-thickening albumin to draw the swelling back in, diuretics to pee it off; steroids to interrupt the cascade of inflammation, blood to counter the dilution and make up for the body’s deficit while it focuses on white blood cells instead of red. Heparin to keep the immobile body from clotting. Bicarb to counteract the acid produced by stressed cells.  Mechanical ventilation to keep the swollen lungs functional and increase available oxygen. Proton pump inhibitors to prevent ulcers and acid reflux while the body is stressed and ventilated. Chlorhexadine mouthwash to keep other germs from crawling down the breathing tube.

It’s insane. If we can naturally produce the antibiotics we need as soon as the germs invade, antibodies with the right markers to identify their enemies immediately instead of mounting a full septic assault, we don’t need any of the other drugs. If we can interrupt the sepsis early, before the inflammation gets out of control and the body’s organs are dying from low blood pressure, we don’t need the ever-increasing volumes of supporting drugs to deal with the consequences of sepsis. And if our bodies can’t control the infection and our doctors can’t keep our bodies in check, we die.

Nothing in nature prepared us to survive things like this. When we save someone in deep sepsis, we are fighting more than germs, more than poisons: we are fighting human history, evolutionary pressure, nature itself.

I have no problem with this. Nature is a bitch. Tumors are natural; epidemics are natural. I am perfectly comfortable fighting nature, as long as we remember that the battle is fought on many fronts and that winning the battle with sepsis doesn’t always mean winning the battle against organ failure, old age, lingering infirmity, and pain. So yes, absolutely, I will fight nature bare-fisted and without shame—but I know better than to gloat over my victories.

All this makes it very hard, emotionally, to care for pts who are doomed. This poor guy never wanted to suffer like we’re making him suffer: he wanted four days, max, on the ventilator, and here we are punching holes in his belly so his weeping, failing liver can get some relief, days beyond his deadline. It’s fucked up and awful and out of my hands. It’s a very American way to die.

Fortunately the ethics committee is involved in this one, and we’re hoping for permission to withdraw pretty soon. Until then, you had better fucking believe I’m blasting him with fentanyl. If he’s got to stick around for this shit, he’s gonna be oped up to the eyelashes the whole time.

Maycee performed most of his care today. I helped with turns and assisted whenever asked, but I let her try things out, make mistakes, and zero out her pressure lines by herself. She did wonderfully, and between chores we exchanged war stories of hospital life.

Having worked on the telemetry unit until now, Maycee’s patient loads have been three and four pts to a nurse, and none of her pts are sedated or on titratable drips. She also worked nights, which means she got to see pts at their weirdest and most whacked-out—a thing I kinda miss, now that I’m days.

She described a group of three sundowning pts whose rooms were unfortunately close to one another, all of whom spent all night yelling at each other. One was a tiny old lady who constantly demanded: “Who’s there? Who’s there?” Another was a little old lady who cursed and screamed for “them” to leave her alone. The third was a developmentally delayed man in his forties who called out for help with almost every breath he took. Two could be redirected temporarily with a bit of soothing company, but the paranoid old lady got worse every time someone came into the room, and the other two responded to her bellowing with a litany of responses: Who’s there? Help! Who’s there? Help me!

All night they kept this up. If one of them fell asleep, the others would wake them back up. Closing the doors increased the screaming—a lot of delirious pts are terrified of being enclosed. Maycee related the charge nurse’s ongoing battle with Bed Control and the shift administrator, as all three pts needed to be close to a nurse station for observation, and breaking them up would involve transferring at least one of them to another floor. Finally the shift admin dropped by to have a face-to-face chat with the charge, observed the noise firsthand, and had transfer orders for two of the three within thirty minutes.

I laughed my ass off, naturally. We’ve all had nights like this, and we’ve all begged distant, uncomprehending administrators for mercy the way prisoners wish upon stars. Any story where someone doesn’t believe a nurse until they see for themselves is a relatable story; any story where the unbeliever is driven mad, splattered with body fluids, or chewed out for their disbelief is a great story. We are nothing if not predictable.

Well. Maybe we’re also bloodthirsty and petty. But we’re predictably bloodthirsty and petty.

I told her about a pt I had in Texas, a woman whose panniculus obscured her legs down to the knee, whose labia majora were distended with edema and obesity to the point that they looked like sagitally aligned panniculi on their own, and whose foley catheter placement was an effort of legend. We used a hammock-style bedsheet hoist to restrain her panniculus and lift it toward the top of the bed—a sheet folded lengthwise, tucked under the hanging gut, threaded through the bed rails on either side and pulled back to achieve a primitive pulley effect.

She had been an uncontrolled diabetic, as I recall, and had a raging raw yeast infection downstairs. I felt fucking terrible for her—she had not been taken care of at all, and was well past the point where she could take care of herself. As we struggled to hold her labia back, she sobbed and hissed with each pressure of a glove against her bleeding, excoriated skin. I had one coworker holding each labe, and I was wearing long gloves and squinting at the bloody, curdled mess of her vaginal vestibule, searching for her urethral meatus—

When one of the coworkers started to lose her grip. “Get out,” she barked, understandably not wanting to grapple with that incredibly painful stretch of skin for a better hold; I got my arm out of the way just in time, as did the other coworker, and the two labia slapped together the way you might clap dust out of a couple of rugs. It sounded like somebody had dropped a fresh brisket on the linoleum. Yeasty effluvium launched from between the folds like taffy thrown from a parade float. All three of us caught a little bit of the splash; I was spackled from my right elbow all the way up to my left ear.

And man, what do you do with something like that? I mean, you can’t really laugh that shit off until you’ve had a chlorhexidine shower and a glass of gin. You sure as fuck can’t freak out and gag and cry and curse, because your pt is right there and no matter how gnarly her vagina is you don’t want to be the dick humiliating a sick woman for being half-eaten by yeast. You can’t even really process it. You assess the damage—did any of it get on my mucus membranes? Do I need to control any secondary drippage? Will I need to get some fresh sterile gloves?—and if you’re not in immediate danger, you just take a deep breath and get back at it.

I do remember reassuring her that I would get her a topical treatment to help with the pain and itching, and that she was extremely relieved once the foley was in and she wasn’t trickling hot urine over her raw, infected skin.

She actually ended up doing pretty well, as I recall. She came back to the MICU three weeks later after a panniculectomy and double knee replacement, and was able to walk a few steps on her second post-op day. I hope that gave her a chance to turn her life around.

After our second-to-last turn, I was tapped to watch a pt down the hall while his sitter was on break. Fifteen minutes of watching a little old guy scratch his balls and ask whose garage he was sitting in? Sweet. We had a great conversation about carburetors, mostly consisting of me having no idea what the fuck a carburetor does and him explaining it to me four times without making much sense, and then he looked me in the eye, lifted his wrist to his mouth to cover a yawn, and pulled out his IV with his teeth. Blood went everywhere. I stanched the flood, paged IV team, and apologized to his nurse for my utter failure as a sitter.

Turned out this was his fourth IV that day. I hadn’t known, when I started sitting him, that his IVs were supposed to be wrapped in an obscuring bandage at all times, and apparently while the sitter was handing off to me he’d unwrapped his line and thrown the bandage on the floor all sneaky-like. Some pts are crafty lil fuckers, I don’t care how confused they are. It’s kind of impressive, really. I don’t know if I could come up with a plan that effective, and I’m not even tripping Haldol-pickled balls on the ICU.

Toward the end of the shift, the abd guy started having a lot of trouble. He had gone down for surgical placement of a tracheostomy and PEG, and I guess he’d been fine for most of the day. During the PEG placement, it seemed, they had insufflated his abdomen—pumped it full of air to allow free movement—and the leftover air was causing pressure issues. He ended up having what I can only describe as an abdominal needle decompression, the way you decompress a tension pneumothorax, and the catheter in his belly farted as they rolled him back and forth to work out all the air.

He nearly coded, apparently. I have never seen anybody react that harshly to insufflation. It’s not like they leave you all blown up. I guess he was just hoarding air—his abdomen is probably a maze of adhesions and scar-pockets by now. Once they decompressed him he was perfectly fine, and even came to enough to open his eyes and move his mouth in voiceless ba ba ba syllables, singing to the ceiling.

Today they started talking to rehab facilities to see if we can get him a bed with Kindred or one of the other long-term care places.

We wrapped up the shift without any more remarkable occurrences, and after running over the day’s events with Maycee, I signed off as her preceptor and gave her full marks for work well done. She will work with a couple other nurses before they start giving her pts of her own. I look forward to seeing how she grows as a nurse. She’s pretty cool.

Regarding the story I mentioned last time, the man and his mother and the cats: I honestly didn’t think this blog would be popular at all outside of the people who already read my forum posts, and they already know that story. I might post it here at some point this weekend, but I want to give a couple of disclaimers:

--It’s definitely the worst thing I’ve ever experienced as a nurse, and hopefully the worst thing I ever will. It’s not the kind of cool story you want to gross your friends out with; I still find it distressing and disturbing and almost sacred in its awfulness, like retelling it is some kind of violation. But I also know that it’s a real thing that happened, and that storytelling is one of the ways we give awful things meaning beyond tragedy, and that some of the things we should fear most are simply hidden from us because they’re too awful to discuss. So I might post it anyway.

--I will definitely have to figure out how to hide it behind a read-more link first.

Week 8 Shift 2

The new crop of ICU nurses is coming on this month. We’ve recruited our usual blend of experienced RNs from other facilities across the country, pre-trained travel RNs who’ve been seduced onto full-time jobs after finishing their contracts (I was one of these), and PCU/PACU/telemetry RNs who are excited to move to the ICU and learn the ropes. The latter group requires a hell of a lot of attention before they’re ready to be turned loose on patients.

When I entered the world of the ICU, I was a new grad, fresh off the NCLEX. I knew I wanted to work ICU, and I had done a lot of high-focus work in school to get there, but I was in absolutely no way prepared to actually provide critical care. I don’t know why they hired me—I probably smelled like amniotic fluid and fresh hay, sitting across the desk from the manager with my incisors clamped together and my lips peeled back.

As it turned out, they were desperate. A mass exodus of nurses from their MICU had made conditions very tight there, and I suppose everyone figured it would be easier to foist off the low-acuity pts on a clueless tottering foal of a nurse who probably wouldn’t kill them than it would be to suffer through another month of catastrophic short-staffing. And, I mean, I’m pretty good at making competent faces.

Fortunately, I had excellent preceptors. I sat through two weeks of class, then another week of computer training, then started two weeks of precepting—following an experienced nurse through the care of a single pt, slowly learning the ropes and getting used to all the drips and rhythms and schedules and reports. At this facility, new nurses are precepted for up to three months; at my initial facility, I had two weeks on days, one week on nights, and then a full pt load. I don’t know how I managed not to kill anybody.

I probably did kill some people. Not immediately, but by providing less-than-competent care that didn’t give them the foundation they needed to heal. I over-sedated my pts—to be fair, we all did this—and I often ended my shifts completely confused and with so many chores left to do that I was the terror of the day nurses who had to follow me. I was Not A Good Nurse.

So precepting is really important to me, and I came to work early because I knew I would be teaching someone how to ICU today.

Her name is Maycee*; she is tiny and energetic and has the cute kind of freckles that speckle the bridge of her nose (unlike my all-over sepia dapple that looks like an old-fashioned Instagram filter of a nasty crime scene under blacklight). She has only ever worked telemetry until now. She’s quite smart and used to hard work (tele/progressive care nurses are some of the hardest workers in the hospital), and so I didn’t feel too overwhelmed when they told me we’d be caring for two pts instead of the traditional precepting one.

This is actually an intense load. You can’t just do anything—you’re explaining all of it, the principles behind it, the rationales for your actions, the processes you used to arrive at your decisions, the whole time. You have to ask leading questions and see if your preceptee can follow those routes on their own, which means setting up a decision situation, prompting the preceptee with a question, and taking the time to gently prod and guide them until they answer the question on their own. It basically doubles the time anything takes, which means that taking two pts is an absolutely mind-blasting time-management gauntlet.

One pt was a desperately ill pt with liver failure and sepsis who had, before being intubated, said that he didn’t want to be intubated for more than four days, and who was now on his fifth day with no family members to follow up on his wishes. The other had chronic worsening respiratory issues and hadn’t wanted to be intubated at all, but had been found down by a neighbor who didn’t know his end-of-life wishes, so he’d been tubed and brought in by the EMTs and was now in full-code hell waiting for some family members to get back to us and let us put him on comfort-only care.

This has been somewhat of a theme on our ICU lately. It’s discouraging. I hate to imagine being chronically ill, having no chance of recovery, and being forced to stick around and suffer because nobody can speak for me.

By the way, DNR tattoos don’t count. DNR papers, signed by a physician, are good for something if they’re posted where the EMTs can see them before they get the tube in and start CPR… but they aren’t allowed to pull the tube out or, in many cases, stop the CPR once it’s started. If you really don’t want to get beat up before you die, it’s a good idea to get the signed papers and put them just inside the front door, and maybe to get a med-alert bracelet instructing any rescuers to look at your papers and/or call your POA (power of attorney) person.

Our pt was on levophed, which meant his pressure was okay, but his arms and legs were enormously swollen. He was up by nineteen liters of fluid from his admit weight. We diuresed him as much as possible, using albumin between rounds of lasix to suck the fluid back into his bloodstream from his tissues. An hour into the shift, we started a lasix drip. We also had to keep him on a continuous potassium drip, as lasix works by dumping potassium to force the kidneys to dump water as well (in simplified terms, anyway).

At max rate, the lasix got his kidneys up to a break-even point where he was peeing about as much as we gave him every hour, except hours where we gave him antibiotics or literally any other fluid above and beyond his continual IV drips.

Meanwhile, the guy next door required frequent bolus doses of sedatives to keep him comfortable, and was shitting more or less continuously. He weighed a fucking ton, so we were relieved to discover that his room was one of the two-thirds on our unit that has an overhead lift by which we could turn and haul and move him. It didn’t really help a lot with cleanups, since it lifts pts by hoisting the corner-straps of a mesh hammock the pt is lying on… so if you need to clean the pt’s butt, you have to move the hammock out of the way. But it made turns a thousand times easier.

Our liver failure/sepsis guy was really not doing well. His PEEP had to be cranked up; he was so fluid-overloaded his lungs were flooding, and the high doses of levophed provided even more systemic resistance that backed up into the left side of his heart. I’m not actually sure if this is true, as I haven’t fully researched it, but I’ve heard that levophed and phenylephrine in particular contribute to pulmonary hypertension by squeezing the lung capillaries, which causes the same swelling in the lungs that happens in the hands and feet with those drugs.

Either way, I can tell you that a pt on a high dose of levophed isn’t going to be breathing on their own for long.

(The hand and foot swelling comes from the way levophed closes up your peripheral blood vessels, resisting blood flow to those areas so that the blood is redirected to critical organ circulation… but also impeding the return flow of fluid that actually makes it out that far.)

So we had him on a whalloping fourteen of PEEP. I can’t remember if I’ve explained PEEP before, but I am the kind of person who precepts well because I can’t stop myself from ranting, so buckle the hell in.

PEEP stands for Post-End Expiratory Pressure. If you just breathe all the way out at the end of each breath, the little air sacs in your lungs—the alveoli—can collapse at the end of expiration. And because the inside of each alveolus has to be wet and gooey with lung-mucus to allow oxygen to diffuse across the membranes, the walls of those little sacs stick together when they close—especially if there’s lots and lots of goop, ie lung boogers or edematous flooding.. It takes a shit-ton of work to force those stuck-shut alveoli open again, and until they pop open again, they aren’t exchanging any air. It’s better to keep them open in the first place… but how?

As a bonus, if your alveoli are swollen up with too much water, they might stop working properly—in which case you gotta bring that swelling down. Diuretics might work if it’s a systemic overload problem, but if your lungs are just irritated and inflamed, you need to find another way to squeeze the fluid out. If you’ve ever had a sports injury, you know that compression helps a lot… but how are you going to squeeze your lung tissue?

The answer to both of these questions is PEEP. At the end of each breath, a sharp puff of air forced into the lung keeps the interior pressure of the lung juuuuuust high enough to prop open the alveoli, and maybe even force a few closed ones to reopen. And by maintaining pressure on the alveolar tissue, PEEP compresses the swelling, forcing fluid back into the bloodstream so your heart can pump it and your kidneys can dump it.

There’s a problem with PEEP though. And we ran into it almost immediately, as our pt suddenly bombed his pressures and had to be given albumin, then cranked up on his levophed even further. Why was this happening, I asked Maycee?

She pondered this for a while. It’s not an easy concept to grasp, and I was asking her to piece it together on her own. I hinted that it had to do with pressures and pressure imbalances in the thorax, and she worked on that until I could see her brain sweating. At last she ventured: is his heart not making enough pressure?

Yeah, I said. There are three reasons why the ratio of pressure involving the heart might be off. The heart itself might be having trouble generating pressure; the pressure beyond the heart (either in the body or in the lungs, the two areas the heart empties into) might have spiked, making the heart’s normal pressure insufficient compared to the new resistance; or the heart might not be getting enough pressure supplying blood to it. Or a blend of these things—it’s rarely just one.

Had we recently changed any pressures in his body?

Any post-end expiratory pressures?

At that point she got it, and it was amazing to watch the string of lights behind her eyes igniting a trail from one concept to the other. “More pressure in his lungs from PEEP,” she said. “More pressure for his his heart to push against; more pressure to resist the flow of blood back to his heart from his body. We changed the pressure! So can we fix that?”

The answer is complicated. More fluid in his bloodstream would increase the return pressure to his heart, but stood a good chance of never making it back to his veins after the pressure in his arteries petered out, and he was already desperately fluid-overloaded. He had run out of places to put extra fluid; his arms and legs were weeping and taut, his scrotum had inflated to the size of a basketball, and his belly was a distended, thumpable tank of fluid that had oozed from his liver into his abdominal cavity.

And honestly, you can only give someone so much levophed.

So we called the charge nurse and asked if we could hand off the other guy at 1500—the answer was yes—and then called the pulmonologist/intensivist, our brilliant and beloved Dr. Padma, and asked if she felt like tapping this guy’s abdomen.

She agreed with us: we needed to get some fluid off this guy, and a quick bedside ultrasound showed that he had too much fluid in his belly to measure easily just by looking at it. She said she would go finish her rounds, then come back after shift change.

I sent Maycee on an extended lunch break. It’s hard to absorb all the things you’ll see in an afternoon on the ICU if you’re not used to it, and I firmly believe that part of the learning process involves time spent staring at the wall, trying to piece all the memories and ideas together. By the time she got back, it was ten minutes after shift change, and I had the room more or less prepared for the paracentesis.

Dr. Padma set up a paracentesis kit at the bedside, and we watched as she used the ultrasound machine to guide a needle into a fluid-filled pocket of his abdomen, thread a hollow plastic catheter over it, then withdraw the needle and leave the catheter to drain.

The bag that came with the kit filled to its total—a liter—almost immediately. We emptied it, then drained some more, then realized that this was going to continue for some time. So we hooked the catheter up to a wall suction canister, turned it to low suck, and changed the canister every time it filled up.

The fluid was thick and gooey and wheat-colored with a pink tinge. It also foamed as it poured into the canister, forming a thick layer of bubbles at the top that forced us to empty the one-liter canisters whenever they hit 800mL. I explained to Maycee that the foaming came from protein dissolved in the fluid, a common finding in ascites runoff. Albumin—yes, the same protein that we give intravenously to thicken up the blood and draw in fluid from the third space—is essentially the same thing that you get in egg whites, albumen, which means it foams up nicely when agitated.

I pointed this out to Maycee, and added that you could probably make a decent meringue out of the stuff. She tripped over a gratifying dry-heave and then spat in the sink. “That’s fucking gross,” she said, the first time I’d heard any real language out of her, but her tone of voice was not one of censure.

I mean, you probably couldn’t make meringue out of it. Any decent cook can tell you that any kind of lipid or protein impurity in the albumen can keep the foam from locking; additionally, the acid-base balance of ascitic fluid is more likely to be alkaline than acidic, which means you’d need a lot of cream of tartar to make the foam stable.

Either way, the gates of gross stories had now been unlocked. As we removed liter after liter of fluid from his abdomen—we totaled at nine and a half liters—she told me about a pt she’d had once with severe osteomyelitis in a leg-bone exposed by rotten diabetic flesh, who refused amputation until the doctor reached into the wound and squished the bone audibly, pointing out that it felt like soggy Triscuits.

I told her that one story about the guy and his mother and all the cats, and she called bullshit, which is an appropriate reaction to a story that grim (I will probably never have another story to rival it), but I texted my coworker from that night: “Hey, remember that one guy and his mom?”

Thirty minutes later she responded: “FUCK YOU WHYD YOU BRING THAT SHIT UP AGAIN”

“But you remember it, right?”

“Uh I’m carrying that smell to my grave. How’s your week going, stinky oatmeal?”

The weird thing is that we actually do talk about this almost every time we hang out. We get a bloody mary each and order a thing of garlic cheese fries and sit there picking at the gooey stuff, talking about that guy intermittently between gossiping about coworkers and bitching about administration. I don’t know what we hope to unearth about it, or what draws us back, but in some ways our friendship is about that guy. We’re still working on it.

We finished the paracentesis and Dr. Padma retrieved the catheter. In its wake the insertion site continued to ooze copiously. His blood pressure gained by twenty points within thirty minutes, and we started titrating the levophed down. We administered intravenous albumin again, and shortly after that deep wrinkles appeared in his feet as the swelling started to recede.

A short-term fix. We’d just reclaimed his abdomen as a reservoir for extra fluid; he was still weeping internally. But it felt nice, and it gave Maycee some visible indicator of the pt’s improvement.

The charge nurse appeared in the hallway and beckoned to Maycee. “We’re putting in a trach and PEG down the hall,” she said. “You should come see this.” I waved her off and wrapped up the shift while she and the other preceptees crowded around my abd guy’s bed, watching the doctors attempt to open a hole in his neck and one in his belly for breathing and feeding on a long-term ventilator in a care facility.

He’s actually getting… not well, exactly, but better. His hemorrhagic necrotizing pancreatitis seems to have turned around, and while I’m sure he’ll never have full pancreatic function—or, at this point, full neurological function, as he barely responds to questions and commands—he doesn’t look like he’s going to die of this anymore.

At this point, it’ll probably be pneumonia that gets him. That’s what usually gets people on long-term vents.

They did not have much luck with the trach, although the PEG went in easily enough. He just has weird anatomy. It will need to be done surgically.

I barely recognized him when I poked my head in. His hair has grown a lot, and he’s grown a full beard and then had it shaved. The distribution of weight in his face is really different. You can tell, now that the swelling is down, that he’s not a tall man. As they cleaned him up after the trach attempt and let him come back around, his eyes opened and he looked around the room: a human expression of bewilderment, a hint of comprehension, a glimpse… I regret, now, that I hoped he would die. He didn’t seem to be in much pain, despite someone having just literally slit his throat. He looked uncomfortable, but who knows what discomfort and pain mean to him now?

I wonder what his life is going to be like from this point on. I wonder if he’ll ever really wake up. I wonder how much brain damage he sustained during his intense illness, and whether the dialysis and the tube feeding and the tracheostomy will give him some quality of life. It’s entirely possible. It’s also possible that I’ll never know.

When the night nurse came on, he flipped his shit because we had forgotten to change the propofol tubing at 1600. Because propofol is suspended in a lipid solution, we change the tubing every twelve hours to keep it from getting goopy; I had completely forgotten. I didn’t feel like the flipout was completely appropriate, though. He browbeat Maycee when I left the room and told her it was unacceptable to forget to change the tubing, which is a bit much considering that she didn’t know the rules on propofol tubing—it was entirely my fault—and that we were now three hours late on a non-critical task with a pt we’d spent all day struggling to keep alive. Then he cornered her into performing a full bed bath on the pt with him before she left.

Well, part of a bed bath. He’s notorious for this: you give report to him, and he’ll try to keep you until 2030 as his own private CNA, bitching at you the whole time. I hooked Maycee by the elbow, gave the night nurse a frosty look, and dragged my preceptee off to the break room to clock out.

She looked exhausted, excited, ready for a few hours of sleep and another shift tomorrow. She doesn’t even seem upset at the prospect of spending another day in my tutelage.

I think she’ll do well.

Week 7 Shift 3

This shift did not start well. I gave report the night before to a nurse who has, best I can tell, the most brutal ball-shriveling resting bitchface I have ever seen in my life. Alex* is extraordinarily pretty, always immaculately groomed, incredibly capable and conscientious, and has the amazing power to make me feel like a feeble, wriggling brine shrimp during report.

“What have his sugars been running?” No eye contact.

“Oh, uh…” /checks the lab sheet “Not too high. Uhhh… One-sixties. See.”

Her lips thin out. “Mmmm-hmm. Did you cover him?”

“I gave him… uh… one unit at noon. And uh…. I didn’t cover his last blood sugar.”

Flat stare. “You didn’t.”

“No, it was… his blood sugar was like… one point above the cut-off. I didn’t want to crash him.”

“Mmmm-hmmm. So I’ll cover that, then, and recheck in four hours. When I’m supposed to. Did you get all the tubing changed?” Her expression is somewhere between of course you didn’t and I can’t fucking believe this.

“Yeeeeeah.” Then I wither in my seat and stare at my report sheet for a while. She never says anything hurtful or really judgmental, she just has a tone. Also did I mention she’s beautiful? That makes it a thousand million times worse. I always tell myself after report with her that I didn’t fuck anything up, that I did a good job this shift, that the things I didn’t get done were things I had good reasons not to do.

So, having given report on the crazy lady to her, I came back in a little terrified in case I had missed anything.

Instead, she informed me that she’d got a sitter for the pt again once her daughters had left for the evening—our night CNA who always stays over, Rose*—and that she’d really gone nuts last night. Great. Alex also said that she’d had two seizures last night, both of them beginning with the characteristic left-eye jerk that she usually pulled, and ending with tonic-clonic seizing.

She’d also had something that Alex described as “really weird,” an apparent syncopal episode. She’d recovered afterward, although her mental status was not so great for the rest of the night, but she’d gone apneic (unbreathing) and unresponsive for almost a full minute, and her heart had raced. Her post-ictal period had been extremely short.

“I don’t think it was a seizure,” said Alex. “She didn’t jerk her eyes around. But I don’t know what else it could be. Honestly? I was about to start coding her when she came to. The doc said that if she’s not back to normal by eight this morning, we’re going to start a bunch of lab panels and get a CT scan. Which won’t be fun, because she literally will not be still.”

Sure enough, she was fidgeting in the bed, occasionally mumbling to herself, pushing at the blankets with her hands and then pulling them back up. God, putting her in a CT scanner was gonna be hell. But hey, 0715, she had forty-five minutes to get some sunlight and snap out of it. My other pt was my little GI bleed fella again, so I got a ten-second “nothing new, discharge today” from the nurse and came back to see about getting my fidgeter out of sundown land.

Rose was a huge help. “We can just get her up to the commode,” she said, “and then maybe if she does well we can put her in the chair for breakfast, have her look outside. That should bring her around.”

So we hoisted her up to the commode, and she immediately dumped a gallon of dilute urine and let out a huge sigh of relief.

I fixed her gown. “Better?”

She nodded, then looked up at me with a puzzled expression on her face. “My name is Martha*,” she said, as if just remembering this fact.

“Yeah,” I said. “You ready to sit in the chair, Martha? We have some toast and scrambled eggs for you.”

A big emphatic nod. She looked really confused, kind of blindsided, and I didn’t blame her—if she was snapping out of sundowners, she would just now be entering the period where she starts genuinely waking up, the way I often stagger to the toilet in the morning without being quite sure whether it’s day or night. Rose helped me stand her up in the waltz position—her hands on my shoulders, my hands gripping her gait belt, my knees braced against hers in case hers buckle—and we started the process of pivoting to sit in the chair.

About halfway there, she made a strange expression. “My name is Martha,” she said again, and her pupils spilled wide, and her body went completely slack.

Rose and I barely kept her from hitting the floor, mostly by hauling on her gait belt and thighmastering her lower body with our knees up into the waiting recliner. She was completely limp, taking little hiccup-breaths, going gray in the face. Her eyes stared into the middle distance. “She’s having a seizure,” said Rose. On the monitor, her heart raced, then fell into a high bradycardia, rate of 55. Her bladder emptied. She wasn’t really breathing, and even the hiccup-breaths were diminishing into nothing.

We kicked the chair into full recline and I grabbed the ambu breath bag. “Check her pulse,” I said. On the monitor, her heart rate cruised down into the forties. “Check her pulse! Does she have a pulse!”

“It’s a seizure,” said Rose, but she fumbled for a pulse—wrist, throat, groin. “It’s just a seizure!” Meanwhile she kicked the bed into flat mode, max inflate, pulled the CPR board off the head, and slapped her walkie-talkie to call for a respiratory therapist and the flex nurse. We all do this: we say what we really hope is true, and the whole time we prepare for what we really hope isn’t true. Rose moves very quickly; the flex nurse, Franklin*, ducked into the room within seconds.

“You guys need help getting her back to the chair?” He looked at Rose prepping the bed, me bagging air into the pt’s lungs while still trying to find the flicker of pulse I’d felt before, and raised his eyebrows.

“Code,” I said. “Press the button!” Rose smacked the alarm and the whole unit dissolved into organized chaos.

“Jesus,” said Franklin. “You don’t fuckin do half of report, do you?” He dove over the bedside commode, nearly slipped in the lake of urine from my technically-dead pt, and helped me cradle-lift her in one adrenaline-filled swoop back into the bed, where we laid her flat and started compressions. On the monitor, her heart rate alarmed in the twenties with a wide complex—slow movement of electricity throughout the heart, a very bad sign—until we took up the lead-hammering pace of CPR.

Good pulses with compressions. The RT took over bagging. The intensivist—one I forgot to introduce before, a mild-mannered fellow with a soothing presence and a way with difficult families—pushed into the room just behind the code cart, which the charge nurse was plugging into the wall while Franklin stuck defibrillation pads to the pt’s chest. “What happened,” he shouted—codes are incredibly loud—and I told him the very short, very confusing story: she was on the commode, she stood up, she died.

We coded the ever-loving shit out of her. Pulseless Electrical Activity was all we got—not even a shockable rhythm, just that useless, flaccid bradycardia on the monitor with no physical pulse at all. PEA arrests tend to have incredibly bad outcomes; the heart is too fucked for the electrical system to even realize the muscle is dead.

In the middle of all this I walkie-talkied the unit secretary to ask her not to let any visitors past the desk for this pt. I mean, god for-fucking-bid that her daughters walk into this shit: their mother blank and staring in a bed, her few unbroken ribs mashing into pieces under my hands, blood foaming up in the breathing tube we’d just crammed down her throat, naked violent death at its least lovely.

Nothing worked. Nothing even started to work. Rose and I were both in a pretty bad emotional state—this was not the pt we’d have expected to code. For fuck’s sake, she had broken ribs and a UTI! And, okay, it looked like she’d thrown a clot and had a pulmonary embolism—the blood clotted in the tube as the lab tech drew it from her arm—and there wasn’t much we could have done about that, but I thought about last night’s syncopal episode and about the expression on her face as she died in my arms and felt absolutely, bottomlessly sick.

We called it after thirty-five minutes, a lifetime to code a woman in her eighties. The intensivist went in the hallway to call her family, and managed to get through to the two most anxious daughters, both of whom went completely to pieces over the phone. The other daughter wasn’t picking up her phone.

I arranged her as best I could, then took over the phone after the intensivist, calling the organ donation group (a legal requirement, typically to rule a pt out for donation) and the medical examiner’s office (another legal requirement, in case someone dies under suspicious circumstances or there’s a chance of hospital wrongdoing), trying to get the okay quickly to take the breathing tube and IVs out. You can’t take anything off or out of the pt until you get the ME’s okay.

While I was on the phone with the ME, the daughter whose phone had been off rounded the corner, ignored my attempt to flag her down, and pushed into the room. “Mom,” she started, then screamed: “Mom! MOM! Somebody help!”

God almighty, the unit sec hadn’t stopped her at the desk. Her sisters hadn’t got through to her either. She hadn’t answered because she’d been on the road, coming here, to visit with her mother over breakfast.

I’m just glad it was the more level-headed one. Of course she was devastated, absolutely wrecked—but she’s more familiar with death, and she was able to integrate it and understand it much sooner than her sisters would have. By the time her sisters arrived, I had taken out all the tubes and wires, brushed her hair, tucked her in, and had her looking halfway like herself again, except for a smear of blood beside her pillow that I covered with a washcloth.

I called the chaplain. Turns out the chaplain was off that day. The family hovered in the waiting room, terrified to go see their mother’s body, wailing and crying, at least one daughter nearly fainting twice. I called the weekend chaplain, who often covers on her days off, and asked if she’d be willing to come in and sit with the family while I finished up their paperwork and helped them get to a settling point.

She came in. I owe her big. Unfortunately, after she talked the family into going home and awaiting a call from the funeral home to go see her recovered body there, she hung around and tried to be emotionally supportive to me, at a time when I had a shit-ton of paperwork to manage and really wasn’t feeling terribly in need of a shoulder to cry on.

Mostly I was pissed as fuck, and frustrated, and I wanted to punch something. Every last fucking thing that could have gone wrong seemed to have gone wrong. I couldn’t believe she was dead; I could not believe that we had failed to keep her daughter from being surprised with her death. I was very polite with the chaplain, but finally I hid in the bathroom until she left.

Then I went into my GIB guy’s room for the first fucking time that whole shift. It was now 0830.

I gave him his breakfast, which was mostly cold by now, and took his blood sugar so he could eat it. I smiled graciously the entire time and apologized for taking so long. “I guess you heard everyone in the unit running around like crazy,” I said. “We were trying to save another pt who had taken a bad turn.”

He dug into his toast and asked: “Were they okay?”

“Not as okay as I hoped.” I don’t want to lie to people, but I can’t always tell them the truth, and either way it’s bad form to bomb somebody’s day with a spiel about how their neighbor just died.

As I emerged into the hallway, Alex appeared, expression of stern disapproval firmly in place. “That went badly,” she said, and I braced myself to defend my actions. “Here, I got you this.”

It was a Starbucks latte. A real, honest to god Starbucks latte. I am a little ashamed, but not much, to tell you that I got a little misty. “Thank you so much,” I said.

“You did really well,” she said. “I can’t believe she just coded like that. And her family… You handled that really well.” Then she left for home, while I sipped my latte and rejoiced in the knowledge that her chronic bitchface doesn’t reflect her actual opinion of me.

Ten minutes later, the guy showed up to carry Martha’s body away, and I finally gave the GIB guy’s morning meds and helped him to the bedside commode. I don’t mind telling you I was sweating like a horse the whole time. Waltz position and pivot, knees locked to knees, the whole time I’m chanting in my head: Please don’t code, please don’t code.

He didn’t code. He did shit an absolute lake of filth. I bet he felt better after that.

After this I took a nap. My blessed coworker and patron saint Mavi covered me for what we euphemistically called an “extended break,” and I spent forty-five minutes facedown on the break room sofa, dreaming about a bubble bath full of little adorable swimming mammals that would pop up through the bubbles and squeak, then dive like otters.

I awakened to the charge nurse shaking me gently. “Can you take the guy in twelve*? He has a sitter.”

Okay. Whatever. “What’s going on in twelve?”

“His nurse is getting a fresh VATS and he’s just… a little heavy.”

“Oh good. Sure. Whatever.”

He wasn’t just a little heavy. I mean, physically, he weighed maybe 200lb, but he was in four-point locking Velcro restraints with a bedside sitter and an ass full of Haldol injections. The dude is in his late twenties, a Type 1 diabetic, with a serious drug problem.

I don’t mean that he’s addicted to something, although I’m sure he is. I don’t even mean that he’s taking something nasty on the regular, although I’m sure he is. I mean that this guy will, apparently, do literally anything to avoid sobriety, up to and including begging Robitussin from a pt family member in the waiting room. I don’t think he even got enough Robitussin to get high.

And at any rate this was two days ago, when he was on the med-surg floor, before he went completely apeshit, ripped the whiteboard off the wall, threw a chair at his nurse, and ran down the stairwell to escape from the hospital. He was in for DKA and pancreatitis, and definitely didn’t seem to be in control of his faculties, so we hunted him down; he was in his truck in the parking garage, screaming and banging on the window because he couldn’t figure out how to get the door open.

He had taken a whole bunch of god-knows-what—tested positive for amphetamines, cocaine, opioids, and benzos, although the latter two he’d had in-hospital with his pancreatitis pain and his alcohol withdrawal. Oh yeah, his blood alcohol level was elevated too.

We weren’t able to figure this out until he had been thoroughly restrained, jabbed with an obscene amount of Haldol, shot up with about 4mg of IV Ativan, and strapped down while he drifted off into a mumbling daze. His blood pressure was out the roof—not uncommon for cocaine, especially crack, which we suspected because a) he’s homeless and poor as shit and b) he had a bunch of copper brillo pads in his passenger seat. He was also difficult to sedate, which we expect with meth usage… and he was insanely violent and psychotic, which we expect with the kind of bullshit gas-station drugs that get sold as ‘potpourri’.

I mean, he successfully tricked us into keeping him from being sober for another 12 hours. But he did not endear himself to us, what with all the punching and broken furniture.

By the time I got him, he was starting to calm down, and I was able to ease him off the restraints, although the sitter remained. His girlfriend came in, tearful, also obviously accustomed to sleeping in cars and shooting up, and I got her a sandwich and a warm blanket and told her to go ahead and sleep in the recliner for a while. When she woke up, her boyfriend was still semiconscious and mumbling, so she and I had a little contract chat: she goes to the methadone clinic, so I promised her that while her boyfriend was in the hospital, she could stay here and sleep in the chair and have three meals a day—as long as she attends her methadone clinic meeting times and doesn’t bring in any drugs or alcohol, which are absolutely forbidden on campus.

An hour later I caught her rolling a cigarette (no, not even a joint, a cigarette—loose tobacco leaves in a greasy recycled lunch-meat Tupperware), and explained that if she lit it up in here, the ceiling sprinklers would come on and drench everything. “It’ll ruin your phone,” I noted, and the pt spoke up from his groggy muttering to shout: “Put my phone in the drawer!”

I started to suspect that he wasn’t as gorked out as he seemed.

An hour after that I took his blood sugar and it resulted at 422. “What did you eat,” I asked him.

“Nothing! I haven’t eaten in, like, days.”

A cursory bed-shake revealed four full-sized Butterfinger wrappers and an unmistakable pile of Oreo crumbs. Like really, dude. We had a talk: “I know you want to get out of here as fast as possible, but you realize if you drive your blood sugar up, you’re just gonna end up back here, right? And if you have to have an insulin drip started again, you won’t be able to leave easily?”

He shrugged. “I’m leaving here tonight, even if I have to escape.” Big smile. “Hey, you wanna come with me? There’s always room in my truck.”

His girlfriend started complaining, then called me a whore. I left the room “to let you guys get control of yourselves,” and heard her berating him as I left.

“Why do you say shit like that? It’s not even funny!”

“It’s just my sense of humor, babe. Roll me a cig?”

God. Gaaaaaawd. By this point he was 100% conscious and aware, just being a total asshole. Every time I went in the room, he gave me a steady stream of “humor” about how he was leaving in an hour even if he had to hit someone, how the doctor had dropped by and said he could have dilaudid, how he would “sign whatever you guys say” to get out this evening because “I gotta meet a guy for some drugs. Just kidding!”

His expression didn’t say ‘joking’. His expression said that he thought I was stupid enough to believe he was joking.

A lot of people tell inappropriate jokes in the ICU. It’s a stress-coping mechanism, usually, if not a flattering one. A lot of people who feel out of control of their lives and bodies try to make the staff uncomfortable to re-establish their own feeling of autonomy. Typically I’ll handle this by setting strict boundaries, leaving the room with an admonition for the pt to get themselves under control, and looking for other places to give the pt some perception of autonomy. You can tell that it’s a stress response—they laugh with brittle force, they make lame uncreative jokes and remarks, they show their teeth and the whites of their eyes. There’s a little panic in their voices, a little aggression in their eyes.

Some people harass staff because they’re depressed, detached, feeling hopeless. They’re terminal, or their condition may never improve. They feel out of control, but they also feel like the world around them is hostile and unsafe. They self-deprecate as much as they attack; they have a bleak laugh, monotone voice, the kind of jokes that cut deeper than they should. They kinda joke like Robin Williams: all mania and grief.

(I could never watch Robin Williams comedy. He just looked so sad all the time. He looked like he was joking so he wouldn’t cry, or like he was trying to make someone laugh to keep them from swinging at him.)

These people need to feel control, but they also need to feel safe. They need palliative care, to help them find ways to live meaningfully at the end of their lives. They need a wry sense of humor to deflect their jabs, and to help their grim outlook become an enemy they can despise instead of surrendering to.

This guy… well. Some pts have zero intent of changing their lives, and resent being in the hospital at all. Some pts think they’ve tricked you, because here you are taking care of them when they hate you and would gladly hurt you if they could get away with it. Some pts think you’re a sucker, their bitch, their waitress; they make remarks and take potshots because they can, and they want to remind you that in their minds, they’ve already won.

I can’t stand pts like that. I hate seeing the expressions on their faces: the smirking challenge, the gloating, the certainty that they can get away with anything they try to pull. It turns my job from a joy and a labor of love into a gross afternoon of feeling wasted and exploited.

About an hour before end of shift, I got to give up my GIB guy and take on a new admit from the OR, a tiny old woman with Alzheimer’s who fell in her assisted living facility and now has a broken clavicle, broken facial bones, and a brand-new left hip repair. I barely had time to get her settled before shift change.

As I was waiting to give report, the afternoon charge came up to check on me. This is the same charge from yesterday afternoon, the one who knew my pt. “Oh,” she said, “did you transfer Martha to the floor?”

Explaining that was not fun.

After I gave report and was headed to clock out, I passed my tiny old lady from the other day, the one with the Diet Dr. Pepper and the razor-edged, if slightly unhinged, wit. “Hey,” she called, “can you come get these men out of my bed?”

“Which men,” I asked, poking my head into the room. She was alone, lying in a bundle of blankets.

“These men behind me,” she said, gesturing to the pillows shoved under her left side. “I’m all wore out! I’ve had enough. Tell ‘em to go home.”

I took the pillows out and told her the gentlemen wouldn’t be bothering her any longer. Then I made it halfway to the garage before I started wondering what, exactly, she’d thought those “men” were up to in her bed, wearing her out.

I hope I grow up to be an old lady just like her.

With an hour to go til report, I took a walkie-talkie call from the charge. “I need you to give report to Franklin on your GIB guy,” she said. “There’s a fresh hip coming up from the OR who went into a-fib on the table, and I need you to recover her until the nocs get here.”

“Shit, why can’t Franklin land her?”

“Franklin has the heart. So you’ll need to keep an eye on the GIB guy for him, and give your 1800 meds, because he won’t be able to get into the room easily.”

Sigh. “How about I just keep GIB for an hour and give report to the night nurse, and not waste time reporting to Franklin before the hip gets here?”

“Oh, could you do that? Thanks!” Click.

Yeah, whatever. GIB guy was happily chowing down on dinner, and I brought him his 1800 phosphorus-binding med (oh yeah, he was on dialysis too, and required medications to prevent his phos from climbing too high between trips to the fridge).

(The fridge here refers to the huge chunky dialysis machines that our dialysis nurses push up and down the hallways and use to scrub our pts’ blood. We call them “fridge nurses” and exchange good-natured jabs about the relative superiority of our respective nursing careers. Most of the hospitals in this area either keep their own dialysis fleet or employ the major dialysis-nurse agency in the city, which means that I’ve known most of them for years even though I changed facilities last year.)

The fresh hip was a little old lady with Alzheimers who had taken a dive while going to the bathroom and ended up with a broken clavicle, hip, and left hand. The stress of surgery had irritated the shit out of her heart, which went into a-fib, raising her risk of clotting. When the top chamber of your heart is just wiggling around ineffectively, it forms the perfect environment for clots to form—a warm, open compartment with walls that massage the blood rather than pushing it. And since she’d just had surgery, anticoagulating her was not an option.

So we started her on a diltiazem drip to slow her heart rate—she was quite fast—and laid her flat to recover. And then it was time to give report.

After which I went the fuck home and made dinner, checked with my sister to make sure she was doing okay at the GED tutoring sessions and to ask if she has an internship lined up yet, and then went out for an hour with my writing buddy to work on something besides a shift report: a highly simplified D&D campaign I’ve been running for some friends who wanted to learn tabletop RPGs but were intimidated by all the numbers and charts. It’s a small dumb thing that’s more story and flimflam than hard game-crunching, but I’ve been enjoying it, and it’s adapted well enough to a beginning group that it’s keeping ten simultaneous players occupied nicely. Plus my writing buddy is a game designer type so I can pick his brain for help when shit gets real, and he plays NPCs when I need them.

This is my first time DMing since I was in college. I am not good at it, I don’t think. But we have fun.